Let's Talk About S-E-X

This subject is for grown folks only.
I am a woman who knows exactly what she wants from a lover. I want someone who is strong but knows how to be gentle when the mood is right. Not that I’m too demanding, but I’m very vocal about what I expect in the bedroom. If you’re going to venture into my queendom, you’d better come correct. I can say all of this now, but a few years ago it was a totally different story. I was very shy and timid about sex. Of course I enjoyed it, but I didn’t know how to express my desires to my partner. As girls, we are taught that certain subjects like sex are taboo. Because of this, by the time we grow into women, we don’t approach the idea of sexuality the same as men do. They can boast about their conquests and not be judged by others or labeled a “ho.” As women we aren't "allowed" the same courtesy so we feel we have to be more discreet about our deeds...

Keep reading my 9 Things I Wish I Knew About Sex in my 20s That I Know Now on KisforKinky.


This is part 3 of 6 in our KisforKinky X Model Liberation 'She’ Collaboration. Self Portraits by yours truly.

The Gift of Love

The sun is shining a little brighter. The birds are chirping a little happier. There's exciting energy floating around. Don't you feel it? Love is in the air. We're counting down the days until Valentine's Day. Apparently Cupid's arrow has already struck some people early. I swear every week since the holidays I've heard about friends of mine getting engaged. Good for you, girls! And guys, you are extremely lucky to have a wonderful woman in your life who wants to spend the rest of her life with you. Let's say it's your BFF who got engaged and she lives across the country and you want to get her a gift. Or if you're the new fiancé and you want to get your soon-to-be-bride something to start off her wedding planning...


That's exactly why my friend Ashley started Bliss N Bundles. A little while ago her best friend got engaged in Paris right under the Eiffel Tower. Talk about romantic. Anyway, once she got back to the States, Ashley wanted to send her friend an engagement gift. Cards are cute. Flowers are pretty. But what about something practical. Oh and did I mention...there are thousands of miles between them, so it's not like the girls could just get together for a spa day. Ashley couldn't find a company that had the perfect present her newly engaged BFF, so she created something on her own.



The lovely baskets come in different sizes and options. The platinum package comes with three bridal magazines, a wedding planner, chocolates, scented hand lotion, sparkling wine and glassware. There's also a picture frame for the official engagement photo. Honestly, these are all things we could use on Valentine's Day. Gentleman, imagine proposing to your girlfriend and this is already waiting in your hotel room to celebrate the occasion. Bliss N Bundles even has a basket for expecting mommies since I'm sure some babies will made on Valentine's night. Order your basket now and use discount code Nikialove at checkout to receive 20% off. Share the love.